A Sex Toy Gift Guide for You & Your Partner

by Natalie Kiser

December 1, 2021 at 6:05pm PM EST

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‘Tis the season to reward the nicest lovers with something naughty.

Even though the holiday season is overwhelmingly SFW — with family-friendly gifts for everyone on your list abound — there are some folks in your life who may want a gift that’s a bit more sexual and sensual. Especially during a holiday season heading into a winter where many of us might be hauled up at home (yet again), you can make those lazy, cold nights a whole lot hotter with a few presents that enrich your quality time in the bedroom.

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Picking an innocuous vanilla gift for your significant other is hard enough, so we’re here to help you nail down the sexiest holiday gifts available this season. Whether it’s a new toy for you to experiment with, an introduction to something exciting you want to try or deals on toys you can only splurge on during this holiday season, we’ve got you covered.

And, before you read on, have an evergreen reminder: Giving sex toys as gifts is something really best left for people you know will want to receive a NSFW gift from you — be wise and respectful of consent before sending anyone a goodie off this list! And if you are even a little bit hesitant, maybe sit back, snag a gift card and make shopping part of your foreplay instead.

Otherwise, happy shopping! And, more importantly, happy grown-up playtime when your gifts arrive!

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Better Love x Stylecaster Stella

The sweetest new toy on the block, Stella is a suction vibrator with a flicking tongue center that is so totally satisfying for folks with vulvas especially. With an easy handle and plenty of toe-curling settings, you and your partner both will love it all year long.

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Lovehoney Sweet Seduction 12 Day Couple’s Advent Calendar

Another option for getting a lot of bang (literally and figuratively) for your buck, this advent calendar from Lovehoney brings you 12 different toys and accessories to level-up your seasonal love making.

Lovehoney Sweet Seduction 12 Day Couple's Advent Calendar $110 Buy now Sign Up

Sex Bomb Bath Bomb

Make your bathtime so much more fun with a bath bomb designed with your most sensual nights in mind. Featuring aphrodisiacs like jasmine, clary sage and ylang ylang, you and your partner will be in the mood and ready for a not so silent night.

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Dame Eva II

A great little toy for couples, Eva II stays in place (thanks to its little wings that tuck under you or your partner’s labia) as you have intercourse and is a pretty quiet and discreet way to add a toy into your plain old sexual routine.

Bijou Indiscrets 12 Sex Days Box

So it’s like an advent calendar, only sexier. 12 Sexy Surprises ranging from wearables to toys that you and your partner can open leading up to your holiday of choice or whenever. 

Isabel Fay Water-Based Lubricant

Use the holidays as an excuse to stock up on fancy lubes! This one from Isabel Fay is water-based and all-natural and pairs well with solo or partner play.

Isabel Fay Water Based Personal Lube 16.95 on Amazon.com Buy now Sign Up

Bijoux Indiscrets MAZE Wide Handcuffs

These cuffs can be a totally comfy (all things considered) and aesthetically pleasing introduction to playing with restraints or a pair for seasoned pros. Wide, sturdy and fairly cute, they might be the perfect stocking stuffer for you and your partner.

(Just remember to be safe and have a thorough chat about everyone’s comfort levels before you play!) 

Bijoux Indiscrets Handcuffs - MAZE - Wide $58 Buy now Sign Up

Dalliance Sex Dice

Like DnD, but hotter — Dalliance’s Sex Dice are a grown-up way to bring some more fun and games into your bedroom. With 12-sided, six-sided and 10-sided options, there’s positions, directions and locations to target — all left up to chance.

Amour Rechargeable Remote Control Love Egg Vibrator

Though it may seem like a kitschy love heart bachelorette party toy, the Amour Love Egg is a totally high-tech remote-controlled vibe. Hand over control of stimulation to your partner for the night and see where it takes you.

Amour Rechargeable Remote Control Love Egg $79.99 Buy now Sign Up

The Cowgirl Premium Riding Sex Machine

A rideable sex machine, complete with dildo, the cowgirl offers 360 degrees of swiveling rotation and two separate attachments — and its app allows you to control everything from the vibration intensity to the pulsing pattern. Giddyup.

The Cowgirl Premium Remote and App Controlled Riding Sex Machine $1,499.99 Buy now Sign Up