The Best Sex Toys to Give & Receive This Valentines Day

by Natalie Kiser

February 4, 2022 at 10:19am AM EST

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Now that Valentine’s Day is getting close, finding the sweetest, sexiest gift for your partner that’ll make your alone time a bit more interesting is a priority.

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While chocolates, a sentimental card or a cute stuffed animal are probably never a bad way to let your love know you’re thinking of them, a grown-up toy that you can both play with come nighttime/alone time is another way to elevate the day into something twice as memorable. (Plus, you can keep playing long after V-day has passed.)

We recommend our fair share of sex toys in these parts that run the gamut of styles, shapes and aesthetics. Whether you want to give the gift of a toy that lets you both reach new heights of pleasure, one that levels-up your playtime with high tech features or something that will let you experiment with a new kind of sexual experience, there’s something that everyone will at least be a little intrigued by.

Read on for our picks of the best sex toys to give and receive this Valentine’s Day. Pick up a few for your partner (or drop some hints now so they can gift you something good!) or snag one for yourself (because being your own Valentine is never a bad thing either!)

A version of this story was published February 2021.

Photo : LELO

LELO Enigma

Celebrate Valentine’s Day with some versatility — Enigma is a dual stimulator toy that has the best of both worlds when it comes to suction/clitoral stimulation and internal G-spot stimulation. 

Photo : Stylecaster/Ella Paradis

Better Love x Stylecaster Stella

From our sisters over at STYLECASTER, Stella is a clitoral stimulator toy that combines a flicking tongue (not as weird as it sounds) nestled in subtle but still substantial vibrating nubs. Mimicking oral sex expertly but still staying quiet and discreet, it’s a great pick for couples who don’t necessarily love oral but love the orgasms that come from it.

Photo : LELO


A powerful suction toy that uses sonic waves to create highly-stimulating sensations (without rumbling or contact). It’s also whisper quiet and totally easy to clean and discreetly put away ’til next time.

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Just shy of the Uncanny Valley, Ora is a high-tech toy that simulates Oral sex. No seriously. With the right lube, the soft but firm rotating nub delivers a sensation similar to a tongue. Great for foreplay or just a slowburn orgasm. 

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LELO Smart Wand 2

If we were going to nail down two or three types of must-have vibrators, a reliable wand would always make that list — and LELO’s Smart Wand 2 would totally the MVP of your collection. It’s a large massager (seriously, she’s big!) that brings big sensations to wherever you’d like to feel them and ten different massage patterns that work on your sore muscles just as well as your erogenous zones. (We love versatility!) 

Photo : Lelo.

Lelo Transformer

When you’re gifting a vibrator, a versatile toy is like giving multiple gifts in one. Lelo’s sister brand PicoBong has made this funky little vibe to function as a rabbit, a clit stimulator, a G-spot vibe, a prostate massager, a cock ring or a double ended dildo.

Photo : Babeland.

Coco Vibrator

A tiny, classic bullet with a pretty, sleek design can be used in all sorts of creative ways without taking up too much space. 

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Icicles Glass Wave Heart Butt Plug

Heart-shaped toys can be kitschy but certainly have their time and place — and Valentine’s Day is one of those times. This little plug is a great way to show your appreciation for your partners’ rear assets and explore some next-level stimulation. (FYI, you can use a really nice silicone-based lube to play with this bad boy since butts are not self-lubricating.)

Photo : Babeland.

Rianne S. Heart Vibe

This pretty hand-held heart vibrator comes with 10 speeds to play with — so you won’t be getting bored anytime soon.

Photo : Lioness.

Lioness Vibrator

Definitely more of an investment in your sexual health than most (but perfect for you geeky couples), the Lioness is a state of the art vibe designed to gather info about your orgasms, your pleasure and what makes you tick. If your love language is data, this might be the perfect gift for you.

Photo : Maude.

Maude Vibe

This one is by far one of the cutest and most discreet vibrators I’ve ever owned. It’s small and very mighty, easy to recharge, clean and handle and makes for a pretty and highly practical present. 

Photo : Babeland.

Crave Vesper Necklace Vibrator

Jewelry is a Valentine’s Day standby we all can get behind — but how about a versatile piece offering significantly more bang for your buck? This sleek and pretty vibe can go along on date night without being obvious making room for discreet, sexy times for all.